I feel you on that one... I'm only 22 and feel like I've dealt with enough BS to be 60...
My first planned our wedding, honey moon, and futures together and then left me for his "temptations" of 7 different girls...
(he came back saying he missed me and still loved me... stupidly I feel for it and then after he got his last kicks outta me said 'I don't love you any more'… fucking ass...)
My second promised me marriage and his family already started to call me there daughter and all this other crazy stuff... he cheated on me the last three months of our relationship and might have gotten someone pregnant... and before I found all this out he broke up with me the day before our two year anniversary the day he promised to officially propose to me…
(he came back too and I said NO learning from before... and after two years he came back again to "be friends" when he was with another girl who had a two year old daughter... I did the math an if this was the chick he cheated on me with.... yeah that would be his kid... I said HELL NO!)
Then there was this girl that came along… and well… that’s still fresh and I don’t feel like talking about it right now…
And of course there's all the fake friend and family drama I just don't feel like getting into....
WARNING TO ALL VIRGINS:
Even if they tell you they love you, don't believe them... Words are JUST words unless backed up by actions... And unfortunately as soon as you fall for the "love" trap you can't even see all the crap they are doing to you till it's too late... In this case it's sometimes best to listen to your friends... They're not in love with the loser and can see more of the truth than you...
Also, if you are crying more than laughing in the relationship... LEAVE! No one is worth all your tears...
And another thing... Just because they are your first doesn't mean they are your TRUE love... Spit that stupid idea out of your head before you become consumed and turn into a pathetic glob of made-up lovie-dovie shit....
YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!!!!