Before when I didn't have such a satisfying lover I was masturbating almost constantly... My kinks were also more in control and just reading sexual talk made my hands wander to my breasts and pinch... ~sighs~ It really sucked because it got to the point where no matter how much I tried and masturbated I just wouldn't get off... AT ALL... Even when I was finally in the act with whom ever I was dating at the time, I just wouldn't release and had to fake it so they would leave me alone, though a lot of times I didn't have to because it was all about their release. Fucking bastards.
Any way, now, even with my baby being thousands of miles away, I no longer find a need to touch myself, for some reason it's like by body repulses my own hands or something. The only time I actually perform solo now is when I'm desperate and know that I won't be able to see him at all in the next few days. Of course when we do see each other it's practically a sex marathon doing each other or at least tease 4 times a day. It would be more, especially with his sex drive, but we have things that actually need to get done during the day! lol...
In all technicality, you're practices and how long and how many a day vary between person and person. For instance, before my baby and I got together, he would NEVER masturbate and had NEVER released a day in his life even with all his tries at masturbation. Nothing worked for him and he kinda gave up. Porn, books, people, pictures, nothing would get him aroused until me, which might explain why he refuses to keep his hands to himself after so long of not seeing me.
Also, have you ever read the book "The Five Love Languages"? It's all about what makes a person feel loved and how it varies between person and person. One of those languages is physical touch, where unless they are embraced and have some kind of flesh to flesh touching they feel completely unloved and fall into depression. These people may be considered Sex-aholics though not always.
In short, you're not going over bored. In time you might mellow out like me but that all depends. Tell your babe to take a chill pill and that they're not being replaced by the toys, which might be a problem for them. I've known some people that were upset about their lovers using toys, "Why do they need toys if they have me?" Yeah well, sometimes when you're not dishing out the sex and foreplay enough you go a little crazy.
You might have to sit down with your lover and have a little heart to heart chat. Who knows, maybe they are bored with sex or have some under lying issue that is prevent their libido from kicking in and screwing your brains out. You might even have to seek professional help from a counselor to figure out just exactly what might be holding you both back from being sexually satisfied.
Invest in some Karma Sutra books, have more foreplay, tease throughout the day, go and have romantic date nights, take up dancing (god that's so hot: hearts pounding, sweat dripping, passion a blaze, IT'S SEX ON THE DANCE FLOOR I SWEAR!), role play as if you're strangers and are picking each other up for a one night stand, do sensual massages before, or a long relaxing bubble bath together. GET CREATIVE!
Sex isn't supposed to be boring, do something wild and crazy if only once to see what happens. You might find you have more kinks with your partner than without!!
I hoped that helped at least a little!