Something that I noticed about myself recently is that I don’t spend a lot of time speaking about characters’ hair when I write stuff.
What I mean is that I tend to have a lot of female characters who have all kinds of different types of hair and it never really comes up. Particularly when they’re getting physical. For instance, if a woman is giving a blowjob, I don’t always describe them or someone moving their hair out of the way to get it done. Or if they’re moving their head in particular ways, like while dancing, the hair never comes into it. Occasionally when it’s fun for whoever they’re having sex with to take control of their head, it is spoken about. Beyond that, not really.
Obviously in a real world scenario, a woman with long hair who is dancing around and moving their hair, it would get in the way.
Do you often describe what the hair of your characters are doing?