For ages, rape was only defined as male on female vaginal intercourse, and treated more as “theft” from the husband/boyfriend/family. There’s still places today that treat it as a shame on the woman’s family’s honor, and the woman’s killed for it, like they’re a piece of bubble gum only meant to be used once. Societies can change, which is why if it’s being historically accurate, a story can portray it as a positive, if it’s in line with the history. I mean, an old-fashioned pirate novel? Rape could be part of that.
How the society responds to a rape, whether it’s condemned or praised, says a lot about that society.
That said, I do tend to have a special streak of meanness I’ll apply to the rapist, even if the society upholds the act.