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Five months of procrastination, here we come!

Hands in a sticky mess… definitely can turn hot & raunchy fast

Its defintely a reference to when I asked Jaydee how to write pron and they said I think something along the lines of make sure you keep track of the hands? or something. close.

Might’ve been @JayDee  But yeah, I remember the advice, and I do try to remember that every time I’ve got a similar scene.  Smells might be important, or weather, or the general atmosphere to the “situation”.

Hon, I’m so sorry. I won’t ask if you’re okay because there is such a thing as a stupid question; the odds of you being okay are low, and being asked might just hurt worse. If there’s anything any of us can do or say, just say the word. We’ve got you.

Pets are family, and losing them is like losing a piece of yourself, whether fast or slow. It’s okay to be upset. Hell, I started the year swearing a blue streak on here after losing my little Woozle without warning, and there are still days where I feel like crying, punching something, or both. Nobody is going to judge you for feeling what you feel…but if they did, they’d have to go through me, first. 

Take care of yourself, okay?

Bittersweet part of having pets, the goodbye as they cross that rainbow bridge.  I’ve had both, the fast “WTF?” moment, and the slower (4-year warning), and it’s still hard.  (Yes, slow did give me time to process & brace for the inevitable, so maybe that’s “better”, but tough call.)

This is never easy to deal with.  Your pets are your family.