Shinju

Please don't be offended by what I'm going to say right now, I'm going into mother mode. Yeah, I'm sorry. As a girl who knows girls speaking, the outlook for your relationship does not look good. Everything you have said about this person makes it seem like she feels less for you than you do for her. I don't think it's you, honestly. I think it all comes down to the fact that she is in high school. When you were her age, would you have been able to deal with someone four years your senior wanting to marry you? Without seeing what other options were out there? You need to be fair to her too. If you really love this girl and it was meant to work out, then perhaps you will meet four or five years in the future and things will click, but she is so young right now. You might not see it because you're very young too, but you've also had the opportunity to date other people. I used to be an inexperienced girl in a relationship with someone six years my senior, and trust me, no matter how much you love the other person the curiosity is always there. I'm not saying an age gap/experience gap relationships never work out, I've seen such relationships work out, but the problems caused by the gap will be nearly unbearable due to things like curiosity/cheating and the difference in levels of maturity. I wish you luck, - Shinju

I know, I wish there would be more posts in the Death Note section and I find myself disappointed in the lack of posts in the anime section all together. I feel that the reason for this is that not everyone visiting the main AFF site wants to leave the site to check out the forums. I think this could perhaps be fixed by somehow linking these sections directly to the main board. Perhaps you could drop that in the suggestion section? Me 2 lazy.

Because writers need to take breaks from writing, like a sort of "brain vacation" where you talk about anything but.

I think being mercilessly tormented by two way older brothers for the first 12 years of my life has given me some insight on how to keep a cool head. My rule for forums is if I get to worked up about something someone has posted I just refuse to let myself reply and send them my angry energy by typing. Now I haven't ever had to apply that to AFF, but I have had to for other forums. It just isn't worth it to get all worked up, type an angry reply and then have someone give that bad energy back to you by typing up their own angry reply and so on and so forth where both posters create a whirlwind of bad energy that seems to suck everyone down with it. My answer to every thing is "We'll that's you're opinion, let's just agree to disagree." And if they still want to push it after that, I just ignore them, because an argument with someone who cannot compromise is just a one sided argument. As for cutting, I've been there. I've been suicidal, even making a few half assed attempts at it through the years. I realize now that me living is just a big finger in the face to everything that thinks it can keep this bitch down, and so I will never kill myself, because I just love giving people the finger. If leaving this board is what you need to do to keep your sanity, then go for it. If online arguments make you feel like you want to die, then you need to work on feeling good about you and saying fuck everyone else. Once you've done that, please come back. I feel everyone here is kind of like a strange sort of family, so I hope you'll return. Peace out and good luck, - Shinju

Blue.

I tend to focus on whichever character is feeling the most angst.

I'm just pondering putting up a thread in the suggestion box for a home and garden section. You know, a place where we could share recipes and shit. Or am I just too much of a chick?

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OMG, thankyou, I was actually looking for a cleche finder, oddly enough. I'll post some of my resources onto this thread in a bit.

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Here's some practical advice, read and memorize The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. Oh yeah, and never let her know that you read it.

Hullo and welcome

I had to look up "scat" on urbandictionary, and, well, gross.

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XD I am so hot, they use lava to try to cool me down a few degrees.

. . . . Guilty. I don't want to talk about it. G/NG: of performing sensual acts on a banana. ^^ and NO, I'm not guilty of that either before you ask. Although I was forced to witness once . . .

Best quote ever.

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I have fantasies about being molested by Inuyasha and I'm completely strait . . . er . . . wait . . . that makes no sense seeing as I'm a girl nor am I "completely" strait. What I'm trying to say here is no, it is not unorthodox. I think everyone has fantasies about being molested by Inuyasha. Inuyasha urges are a normal part of every day life, and if not, they should be.

^^ But you got a sunburn, in the Netherlands, before summer started. I am so hot, my nipples shoot out laser beams.

That so happens to me all the time. You either just need to carry a mini notepad with you at all times or just accept that you are going to forget these things. I carry the mininote.

Pink MP3 players are less likely to be stolen because not everyone likes pink.

I'm so sorry you are depressed. I'm also kinda angry at your girlfriend. I mean, you either are the one for her or you are not. If she is not sure she should tell you so so you can move on and find someone who is worthy. She can't just keep you hanging on like some stray dog.

^^I know, I was asking myself the same question.