You know - I'm thinking I need to clarify something here. I like my man to be strong, gentle and have a kind soul. The body really doesn't matter that much to me. One of the main reasons why I like a little extra padding is in my experience the men who work on their bodies until they are on par with Adonis are usually complete assholes in need of an attitude adjustment, and they usually don't have time to devote to a girlfriend either. That's not to say that the ones who let themselves go are any better though. I like a happy medium - Happy, Healthy and Horny is the way to go in my book.