No, honestly it won't help.
I'm going to step this out, exactly HOW you need to do this. Mind you, you must do this in the order I give it to you, or you will continue to have issues.
1. Clear your cache and cookies. I have a tutorial for several different browsers here. You MUST do this before doing any of the rest of the steps.
2. Reset your password. The password is only 5 characters long. It MUST be 8 or more characters to be valid. Reset it here. As this generates an email with a link you must click to initiate the password reset, you need to be sure to check your spam as well for it.
3. Activate your account
Go to http://members.adult...n.net/login.php
Using the CENTER login box, input your email address (that you registered with) and then your password. Please remember that passwords are CASE SENSITIVE. DO NOT hit the enter key. Click "login".
This will take you to a new page. In that page, you must enter data for first and last name, birthday in this format: YYYY-MM-DD. It is critical that you follow the format exactly as given for the DOB. If you enter it in with anything other than dashes between year/month/day, this will not work. Pen names are no longer allowed to contain spaces, so replace any spaces with an underscore or dash, or simply delete them. CLICK update/edit. DO NOT hit the enter key.
You will then be sent an email from anon@adultfan.nexcess.net. If you do not see the email generated in your inbox or spam folder, you need to allow mail from that sender. If you need the activation mail resent to you, go here: http://members.adult...t/rsa.php This will remail you with the activation link.
After you've activated, you can login using the login box at the upper right corner. Do NOT use the center box for logging in after activation. There's a bug which makes it so that the center login only works for activation/registration. When you're logged in, you'll see displayed there "Welcome Back (Member Name).