I'm 100% female in everything I do, but I do understand how someone can be confused about it. The idea that there is male, female, neuter, dual sex and such isn't new to me, but I can understand how stressful that can be to someone who can't decide who they are. Is it a chemical imbalance or are some people just born confused and unsure? Is it societies fault that these people feel like they don't have anywhere to turn? Hell yes, but what can we do about it? If one of my girls came to me and said that they didn't know who or what they were I'd be saddened but I'd still help them the best I could to find out who they want to be. I would however ask myself everyday what I did that confused them.