My main characters tend to get a sense of dread whenever they do have to get dressed
That said, I did get a sense of over-the-top with a recent episode of Jefferey. I thought about toning it down, but decided an up-front explanation was better suited for the purposes of the episode.
It’s a balancing thing. How much is too much/little kinda depends on what you’re aiming for in the story. Is it PWP or plot?
I’ve drifted toward wanting a good plot/thread for the story and simply not shy away from sexual stuff, esp as my stories tend to have teenagers where that sort of stuff tends to get explored.