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  1. Finally can say that I have been enjoying a quiet couple of weeks at the moment. Hope it continues for a while longer.

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    2. Kurahieiritr

      Kurahieiritr

      Thanks, George. Long time no hear. Good to see you are doing okay and still around also. :)

    3. BronxWench

      BronxWench

      I'm in the throes of Hell Week, but next week should begin my peaceful time. Or else I will have to skillet people into a state of tranquility...

    4. Kurahieiritr

      Kurahieiritr

      I hear you, Bronx. Hope the family is doing well in spite of Hell Week happening. :)

  2. Time truly has flown. In what feels like the blink of an eye, half the year has passed as if it never was anything more than a chaotic dream.

  3. Finally have a moment of calm. How long it will last, who can tell?

  4. I am resigned to the ideal that the elder generation has decided to unanimously check out all together this year. How many more funerals will I have to help plan before December is over?

  5. For once, I have had a fairly calm week. Hoping this breather lasts a few more days. Found a lawyer, and now I am praying for a chance to do some writing/revision work.

  6. Finding a lawyer to force the insurance company to pay for the accident their driver caused is a royal pain. These unknown insurance companies are proving more corrupt than I ever imagined.

  7. Some weeks I wonder why people are so blind that they cannot see the foolishness of their delusional states of being.

  8. Son's better and back at work. Still a mass of chaos from all directions and my health has gone to hell again. Need to get in to see a doctor and cannot afford it as per normal. Have to choose between meds and food which is not helping matters. Face palm. I give up.

  9. On the heels of my ex trying to commit suicide, my son gets into a car wreck when getting a ride to work. Both the boys are more or less okay, but the car is a total write off. Can this year get any more obnoxious?

    1. pittwitch

      pittwitch

      It probably could but I don't see how. Sending good thoughts.

    2. GeorgeGlass

      GeorgeGlass

      Short of an alien invasion, no. Also sending good thoughts.

  10. Sad to say I exploded at one of the freaked out gang a couple days ago. Time to hide form the friends and family because I cannot handle 30+ people losing their minds at the same time without let up. :( Gods but this stress has been miserable.

    1. Anesor

      Anesor

      Sorry, any mindless task (like shoveling snow, cleaning grill, scrubbong bathroom) they will give you peace or you make them help? Amu chance you can tap 3rd part counselor/minister who could help? watch a sunset!

  11. Working with one of the kids who had a miscarriage, adn dealing with funeral situation for an old friend who lost his battle with colon cancer last week. This year has got to get better soon or I am going to rip out my gray streaked red hair from all the ongoing hard core stress!

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    2. Kurahieiritr

      Kurahieiritr

      Agreed, Bronx. Last time I saw so much chaos was in 2001. I lost a dozen family members that year, most during the infamous Oklahoma City bombing. I've got multiple friends/family facing horrific situations. I'm tied up in multiple messenger/email/phone conversations every single day. Was elected by Granma Nancy Carol to matriarch status on her death bed a few years back. Is a very heavy burden suddenly.

    3. Anesor

      Anesor

      Take care of yourself, too. Is there anyone you can delegate one problem to?

    4. Kurahieiritr

      Kurahieiritr

      Dale was my backup, and he died a few days ago. I got hit with everyone he was trying to field for me, plus playing peacekeeper for his funeral arrangements. Between the crazy psycho religious mother, an ex wife from hell, his clingy sister, plus current lover, I have been trapped without end online and on the phone at the same time. His funeral will be tomorrow.

  12. Busy with helping several kids and trying to find a new place simultaneously. I swear people have gone completely insane so far this year.

  13. Apartment hunting is exhausting, and time consuming.

  14. Every time I think life has reached the highest pinnacle of insanity, and can't get any crazier, it proves me wrong of late!

  15. I have been in nonstop war with my landlord. I feel bad for Paul who is stuck between us in the never ending drama of getting the saggin roof and nonstop leaks repaired. I hve had to rearange my whole place in case it rains again among other things. This is absolutley the most frustrating thing I have had to deal with ever!

    1. Anesor

      Anesor

      Uggh. Is there any kind of safety/housing oversight board in your town? Of course they might condemn it, but a sagging roof in the winter can't be good. If it's been going on this long with no result, a third party might be able to do something. Your lease may have the appeal info, but double check with local board because stupid things could be unenforcable... good luck.

    2. Kurahieiritr

      Kurahieiritr

      Actually I do not have a current lease. My landlord believes in one time signed, and then he won't renew leases so we are classified month to month. Therefore we have little recourse in this state. Had a rain shower and that ended in listening to Paul walking on our roof twice to sweep off the water the 20th. :( I feel so badly for Paul.

  16. Lots of clouds, Roof still leaks, and I've been run ragged keeping my dog from scaring the roofers who are not coming today. . . Because it is rainy yet again!

    1. BronxWench

      BronxWench

      Grey and cold here...

    2. Anesor

      Anesor

      would a new toy or some peanutbutter distract the pup?

    3. Kurahieiritr

      Kurahieiritr

      Hope you are doing okay, Bronx. I understand the Eastern states are getting hit hard with ice like what happened in Texas. Anesor, Nothing distracts Wraith Shards from his Love me and I'll love you obsession of fast moving tongue flapping, not a violent dog unless made that way through harming him or me. I've already caught the non English speaking roofers trying picking on my dog twice and made it very clear to them that I won't play that game much to their newly evolving fear by...

  17. There are moments when I really wish bashing an obnoxiously dense landlord over the head with a frying pan was not only legal, but mandatory! Instread, I am stuck bashing my own head into the brick wall next to my computer.

  18. Finally the landlord is fixing my blasted leaking roof. Only been demanding it for 3 years at this point. Guess they finally belive cold tar will not work long term!

  19. Seems this last unexpected hardcore relapse is truly over. I am so glad to be back for real this time. I even managed to get a few pages of long ignored chapters written in this last week. I can only do so when my brain is fully functioning along with my right hand. So relieved that I am back to normal once more.

    1. Anesor

      Anesor

      Congrats! Doesn't it feel better to get back to the story that sort of nags at you? I've been calling it twitchy fingers and I'm so glad when it ends. New stories keep pounding at the door, saying 'Type me!'

    2. Kurahieiritr

      Kurahieiritr

      LOL. I was too strong a brain fog to know what to type for the better part of a couple months. :( Every time I started trying to get back to normal the stupid illness nailed me time and again. Guess I hate being down so much I sometimes fight too hard to get back on my feet at times. LMAO.

  20. Okay so I got home after my healing trip and things have been bizzare to say the least. Between the JW obnoxiousness nad the backlog of emails etc, I am wishing I had stayed away longer. ROFL. Can't leave home for a couple days to get help without the whole nutty community going after the rest of my family is my conclusion.

  21. Looks like life will finally start to settle down again into my definition of normal. Has been full of the weirdest crap to deal with at the worst possible time. At least folks are learning not to badger me to become a JW when I am ill at this point.

    1. DemonGoddess
    2. BronxWench

      BronxWench

      :hug: Weird is never good.
    3. Kurahieiritr

      Kurahieiritr

      Weird is the description for most of this year to date. ROFL. Got home to JW driving my 21 year old son batty. I have told them repeatedly not to bug my home, but they won't listen. Wondering if there is a restraining order I can get against the organization so I have legal recourse at this point. 10 years of this is too long to be harassed constantly.

  22. Thanks everyone. I really appreciate the patience here. Bronx, you might want to make sure the candle is for the survival of my friends and family who insist that I need to go back to bed and won't let me near my laptop for more than 20 minutes in morning, and 20 minutes in evening so I have no option but to sleep all dratted day. Dear Gods but they are making me dreadfully insane!

    1. BronxWench

      BronxWench

      LOL! I'll add a second candle. :D

    2. DemonGoddess

      DemonGoddess

      yes, but they are well meaning in the quest to make you crazy!

    3. Kurahieiritr

      Kurahieiritr

      So very true, DG. My 21 year old son is the world's most aggravating/smothering mamma hen ever!

  23. So, I get to feeling better and get hit broadside with a cannon ball named first seasonal inner ear/sinus infection with a damned chest cold. Head desk. I just can't win!

    1. Anesor

      Anesor

      Go for the draw! I will say I got hit with walking pneumonia weeks ago, and it wouldn't go away. the good thing is that the symptoms are mild and FINALLY starting to reduce. Hope yours is mild too.

    2. phoeyay

      phoeyay

      :( suxx0rz (do people do that anymore? did i do it right even?) anyhow, sending hugs & healing vibes!
    3. BronxWench

      BronxWench

      ::lighting a candle::

  24. Finally getting better and should be able to get back to normal by end of week. Awoke with my right hand able to move and grip things consistently this morning for the first time in a month.

    1. BronxWench

      BronxWench

      Oh, that's wonderful news! :D ::hugs::

    2. Kurahieiritr

      Kurahieiritr

      I certainly thought so because one thing I hate is having terminal dropsy problem. Spent the last month in constant clean up of my messes when I forgot and grabbed drinks with the right hand. Being able to freely use my right hand means I am finally able to function fully.

    3. Anesor

      Anesor

      Great! I'm sure it's a great relief and makes the day sunnier!

  25. Since I have been so ill everyone descended for Halloween bearing food to make my holiday brighter. I was struggling so much because of being sick only to have the pot luck gang save the traditional get together for everyone. I did get a few things made, but the kids and my friends decorated and made everything turn out beautifully while telling me to relax. rest and enjoy the goodies they brought.

    1. phoeyay

      phoeyay

      yay for awesome friends! glad to hear :)

    2. BronxWench

      BronxWench

      That is wonderful! :D

    3. Kurahieiritr

      Kurahieiritr

      I am very grateful for my group of friends. I managed to get my rum balls and truffles made because I could sit on a stool and roll those by hand to force my right hand to work better. Other things were totally beyond my hand's capacity, like decorating for the party. Gotta love my friends for all they did to get things together and uphold the decade long tradition.

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