OK, how does everyone feel about, and or deal with if you are a writer, the issue of sex scenes for adult fan fiction vs what the characters would be doing?
My Position: I don't like sex that is waaaaaaaaaay out of character unless the writer can put it in the original character's voice. Hard to do, for me anyhow. It helps me to use a plotline that I feel mimic's the original writer's base stories, or builds on an aspect of a plot that was left unexplored.
My Current Issue: How to put graphic enough sex into a story that was pretty lemonade all the way? The HBO series based on the book is another question as they took the sex WAAAAAAAAY over the top for that story already, something that slowed as the series gained popularity. Unlike most adult fan stories they kept the overly sexualized scenes mostly to the backstory or minor characters. That will not work for me or many others as use of main character pairings are typical.