Shinju Posted December 27, 2007 Report Posted December 27, 2007 Alright. I'll admit. The first bf I ever had I got jealous if he watched it. Now I couldn't give a rats behind 'cause it's all good. Quote
RikuDrak Posted December 27, 2007 Report Posted December 27, 2007 Yeh sure I guess, though I think he's only ever watched it with me. I might feel insecure about what he's fantasizing of when he watches it, if I think too far into it. Otherwise it's fine. He hasn't exhibited the need (or want) to. Quote
Guest Agaib Posted December 28, 2007 Report Posted December 28, 2007 Yes, I don't care. I'm not terribly concerned about it. Quote
Guest Zyx Posted December 28, 2007 Report Posted December 28, 2007 Doesn't really apply to me XD But I would allow it Quote
Kanashii Posted December 28, 2007 Report Posted December 28, 2007 Of course?!?!? Why wouldn't I ??? He lets me write and read whatever I want on AFF, pornography (written or visual) is just another tool in bonding two people together. It shouldn't be anything to be jealous of. When I was young, newly married (around 20) then yeah, I found at first I was a teeny bit jealous. But I know where he comes home and hangs his hat. We have been married nearly 25 years now, and I can say with certainty neither of us has ever cheated on the other. Why? Because we don't get jealous or feel hurt about stuff that has nothing to do with "us" as a team. But no, I have no problem with letting any lover, partner or spouse watch porn. After all, the first thing you will ever learn (despite whether you are gay, hetero, married, single or just shacking up) is that the more RESTRICTIONS you place on another human being, the quicker and faster they will run far away from you. As my buddy Furio likes to say..."If you love something then set it free...If it doesn't return to you. Hunt it down and kill it" <j/k> Quote
Terri Posted December 29, 2007 Report Posted December 29, 2007 There's no "let" if he wants to watch porn, he'll watch porn. Would I prefer him staring at me - hell yeah, but if I'm not there then whatever. Besides I wouldn't want him to tell me I can't watch porn - so I don't do it to him Quote
Guest Rosemarius Posted December 29, 2007 Report Posted December 29, 2007 As i do watch porn (mostly written porn but still porn) I'd be an hypocrite if I wouldn't let my lover watch it. What I wouldn't like is that my gf/bf starts to get stupid ideas from that (ex: the size of the penis is EVERYTHING. Which is not true, at least not for everyone...for example I like petite penises too...and I'm not fond of exxaggerated breasts. Normal measures are just fine). Quote
DarkInuLord Posted December 29, 2007 Report Posted December 29, 2007 :: Cough :: I'm the only one who didn't just vote 'yes'..... I do have to be 100% honest, yes I let my 'lover' watch porn, but she only watches Yaoi, and she has a thing for a certain anime character... I DO get jealous, and I know it's wrong but I can't help it. Quote
Sir Psycho Sexy Posted January 7, 2008 Report Posted January 7, 2008 Of course I let my lover watch porn. What do you think I am, straight? But seriously, it's a good way to connect, and, since it's a long-distance relationship, he can't fap to me ALL the time. Plus he's bi, and sometimes he needs boobies, and I'd rather he watch porn than cheat. Quote
Zimarah Posted January 7, 2008 Report Posted January 7, 2008 If I told him that he couldn't watch porn, then I'd have to stop watching porn. And writing and reading it as well. So he can watch it all he wants. Quote
JenCarpeDiem Posted January 9, 2008 Report Posted January 9, 2008 XD Let? No, I don't let him, I have to force him! He doesn't want to in the first place! If I try to initiate the porn-watching he gets bored and only enjoys watching the funny stuff. The only porn he seems interested in looking at are the photos I sent him when we were long-distance, and they're the only porn I'm uncomfortable with him looking at! Men. Quote
Becca Star Posted January 28, 2008 Report Posted January 28, 2008 I use to have a problem with it back when I was dating this other person because it would consume his life and he'd compare me to who ever he's watching... With my baby though it's all good. We'll watch it together, or seperately and enjoy our selves. Sometimes we'll even make it a compition between us and whatever pron we're watching.. Or steal some of the moves they do... There are times too with our old roommates that we'll set up a "Cake N Porn" night... We'll get some crazy porn movie with a plot and just make fun of all the crappy acting and comment about how that orgasim was SO fake... lol... it's a lot of fun.... "Pirates" is a god one to watch for your first night of "Cake N Porn" if ya do it.... Quote
Lost_Soul Posted January 28, 2008 Report Posted January 28, 2008 I said yes. Actually, I encourage my lover to watch porn, but now, my lover rather watches it with me because he feels bad watching porn behind my back as he does his thing, to be honest, I dont care. As long as my lover gets what they need I'm fine and happy. I actually join in on the fun or do it alone myself if my lover isn't around. >.>; I even watch porn with my friends... 0.0; Quote
DarkInuLord Posted January 28, 2008 Report Posted January 28, 2008 "Pirates" is a god one to watch for your first night of "Cake N Porn" if ya do it.... Ahaha, Pirates.... I remember seeing that at Hollywood Video, and I kept wondering why they had a porn there, I don't think they knew it was porn. >> Quote
Becca Star Posted January 28, 2008 Report Posted January 28, 2008 actually it's the edited version they took out all the major stuff and left a few boob shots... My baby said it was even funnier... They took a four hour porn and turned it into a hour and a half movie... or was it two hours?? Quote
DarkInuLord Posted January 28, 2008 Report Posted January 28, 2008 Well I expect to see 'Space Balls' the next time I visit. Quote
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