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Ginevra

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  1. Guilty G/NG Has had sex in front of others.
  2. Guilty. G/NG Keep naughty books in your bathroom.
  3. I'm probably weighing in a little late, but this thread caught my eye tonight. Short version is: Yes, polygamy should be legal. Long version is: Each group of people who wish to be "married" should be able to devise a legally binding contract that defines their relationship. Ex. How many spouses, how or can more be added, what is to be done if someone leaves etc. Whether it is "till death do us part" or for a year or five or until a certain child reaches adulthood, that sort of thing. Do I think it would become the "norm" anytime soon? No. I do think after a while of sorting things out some types of marriage "contracts" would become pretty standard. I wouldn't really want to speculate on what exactly that would be. I and my husband have participated in alternative lifestyles and have met people who live in poly households, though of course their arrangements can't be legalized. I have participated in an open marraige and have taken a stab at living a polyamorous lifestyle. For a while my ex and I tried to work out an arrangement with another couple, but that turned into a power struggle of sorts. My ex wanted "her" to himself and was basically trying to get myself and the other husband to go off together and leave her to him. After that, we kept our secondary relationships separate. That's how my current husband and I got together. He was my "beau" while I was still married to my ex. He was also my play partner in the BDSM scene. There is a huge difference between "swinging" and having a "poly" arrangement. In swinging, it's all about the sex and emotional involvement is usually discouraged. Polyamory is about having multiple emotional relationships that may or may not be sexual. The problem is, out of every three people, there's a damn good chance that at least one of them will have "sharing" issues. Personally, I would prefer to live in a poly household if I could find at least one more individual who was compatible with myself and my husband. It's not all that important to me whether the individual was male or female or if this individual was sexually interested in both of us. Though I think it would matter to my hubby. It's more the companionship and the extra hands to help around the house that is important to me. Or an extra paycheck. Hubby is disabled. Of course, that's all theoretical at this point. There aren't any real prospects out there. And I can assure you, that carrying on a poly relationship and doing it right is work. And the work increases significantly with each additional partner. It is definitely not for everybody.
  4. Guilty G/NG Has encouraged your child to play video games or watch TV so you can concentrate on writing smutty fan fiction.
  5. For being multi-orgasmic...
  6. Not guilty. G/NG Has listened to other people's conversations while pretending to listen to music on your headphones.
  7. Ducks frantically to avoid the rock. When it lands in front of the T.V. decides it makes a pretty nifty coffee table and leaves it there. Chucks a large cardboard box full of rainbow colored clown wigs.
  8. Locks Fall Out Boy in the closet with the Toy Chest. I'll deal with him later.... Chucks a life size Drew Fuller wind up toy...
  9. I'm glad that redsliver is not. Otherwise that shorn scrotum thing would be a bit disturbing.
  10. Oh Gods I hope so! How many "students" could you paddle before your arm got tired?
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