When I was younger (a lot younger) I took a first look "down there" and almost had kittens. It was the scariest thing I think I ever saw, and I wouldn't even put on a swim suit because someone might see something they shouldn't. You know what? The older I got the more comfortable I got with myself and what I was given by my parents. I'm not abnormal by any stretch of the imagination, but to a young girl (or boy) it's still a bit of a shocker. Some people never grow out of it... hence the designer vaginas and penile implants. My ex didn't help either... he actually asked the doctor to slip in a few extra stitches after I had my first kid. That's not a big help either. Suffice it to say, when one isn't happy in their own skin they'll do drastic things to make it "better". Stupid, defacing and completely wrong, but it's there any way. It's the society we live in... be thinner, sexier and beautiful even down south. What really needs to happen is the instillation of self-worth and self-esteem, but sadly that's not going to line doctor's pockets now is it?