Leonhart29

^ Is projecting ^'s needs and wants on others. < Knows that if < wants someone to join them in the Orgy (and they're already involved in the orgy) < can WRITE it. V Thinks that could be a good idea.

getting someone's panties in a twist. Although, when you stop to think about it, that could be _________

Jewel

Guilty - although your answer was rather amusing even if it was a bit homophobic (or did I read the all caps and exclamation points wrong?) G/NG Has a webcam they use on a regular basis

This happens to be a subject I am very intimate with. I myself have never cheated on the person I was with at the time, and by cheating I mean touching, kissing, screwing, just a bit of the dry hump and emotions being involved. My ex-husband however did cheat on me. It's not just sex with another person, if it was just that I could have handled it - I wouldn't have liked it, and I sure as hell would have gotten out of the relationship as soon as I found out, but it wouldn't have devastated me to the point where I wouldn't let anyone into my life for 11 years because I was afraid someone would take me down that twisted ugly low self-esteem road again. Cheating to me is taking what one person gives you, trust, love, their body, and even their lives in your hands and then fucking them over by having a relationship with someone else. By relationship I mean more than a one night stand, dating, seeing someone on a regular basis just to be with them, telling them you love them etc. My ex had many relationships like that at the same time. He dated (at last count because they keep coming up to bite me in the ass) 4 strippers, 1 delivery driver (female), 1 judge who shall remain nameless so I don't get my butt thrown in jail (male), my cousin (female), and my best male friend who just so happened to be an exotic dancer at one of the local gay clubs. The bisexual aspect has nothing to do with it. As far as I'm concerned most people have a bit of that in them to begin with. I see nothing wrong with it (and if you've read any of my works you'd know that). I see the cheating as the problem - not the sex of the people he chose to do it with. I'm a bit more open than most when it comes to this as I can forgive a lot (and I did - many times to the point where I forgave him his first 3 before I got my head on my shoulders and realized that everything he was doing meant that he didn't love me - he loved controlling me)- although I never forget. Basically what I'm saying is this - if you are in a relationship and you find your fingers wandering, your affections going to someone other than your significant other you need to stop and take a long look at yourself in the mirror. Find out if this is something you really want to do. Can you handle losing everything you have for a fling - because if the answer is yes get the hell out of the relationship before you do anything about it. Get out before you hurt that person more than can be healed.

Wrong gender. Red?

I am off to work and not looking forward to a day long meeting with my "big boss" who is down from what they call "true civilization" in Richardson. I am wondering if I can bite the insides of my cheeks to keep from laughing at the idiots I have to deal with. I am thinking though that if I don't laugh I'll probably tear a head or two off at the shoulders.

ooops - chain is broken. Red?

I am thinking that white chocolate covered strawberries would get me into the sack faster than almost anything. I am also thinking that one look from my boyfriend would do it faster.

Guilty - and it got me slapped - but I tend to give as good as I get as my mother well knows. G/NG would be willing to use snake venom to erase wrinkles (no joke - it's happening)

Sounds like a plan to me. Daz?

I am saying being Bilingual in Texas is a must - although I never took the time to learn Spanish. I am bilingual in a dead language and it comes in handy when I want to cuss people out.

Oh man - that's something else! Do you pick up the handset every once in a while and give her an "Uh huh"? Daz?

Erection

Hush

Time After Time - Cindy Lauper

Goulosh

Skin-flint

That's me - waiting on my mother to get home and start in on me (wish I could ignore her as easily as not answering the phone) Daz?

What - and ruin all of the good sane advice given to these completely relevant questions?

Laguna Loire

Gush

Worthless

I believe he stepped out for a bit. Daz?

I am off to bed now. I am hoping for some dreams that will inspire me to finish the next to the last chapter in Realms of Reality. I am currently fantasizing about a certain young man who has captured my brain and is holding it for ransom.