I've noticed that some (and note right now I'm saying some, not all, so don't jump down my throat that you or your friends aren't like that) of the men that hold that opinion really aren't basing their opinion on the issue itself, but on control. They may have a religious reason to want that control, or a political one. But the issue isn't really applied to their lives directly, especially if they follow the christian doctrine that alot of them seem to hide behind. After all, if you are following Christian doctorine you aren't having pre-marital sex are you? So you surely won't be knocking someone up then, will you? It's easy to say something is wrong or evil if you don't have any personal connection to it.