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Awhile back, someone on a random Reddit post suggested I might be neurodivergent. I’d only heard the term used for people with autism – yes, I live under a rock – so my initial response was disgruntlement. My husband, after all, is autistic, and I had a mental image of the time he met my prudish religious neighbor for the first time and made a joke about his dick; if we were both that awkward outwardly instead of just on the inside, we’d be a right mess. There was also a sidenote of, “shit, I’m even more fucked up than Cold, how dare this person compare him to me? He doesn’t deserve that insult!” indignance.
Come to find out “neurodivergent” applies to several diagnoses and disabilities; it applies to most (any?) condition resulting from deviations in how the brain is wired...including mine. Apparently, I am neurodivergent. So is Cold. So many things make sense now. That Redditor was right and I had no idea.
That said...I’ve been editing a chapter of my novel with Boney M.’s “Rasputin” playing on repeat for...uh...an hour? ...or three? Because it’s stuck in my head? Okay, so maybe there were signs. Maybe.
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My personal theory is that all of this neurodivergence is an evolutionary tactic for group survival. If everyone in your nomadic tribe has a short attention span, then they’ll get lost or distracted on their way to the next watering hole and probably die. But if NO one in the tribe has a short attention span, then they’ll make it to the next watering hole but miss all the berry bushes and edible animals that they were too focused to notice, and they’ll probably starve.
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@BronxWench hang on a second. They no longer call it Asperger’s? 😳 That’s what my husband has, and he was diagnosed less than ten years ago.
Also, @GeorgeGlass, I love that theory. The idea of being effed in the head “for the good of the tribe” makes me feel all warm and fuzzy on the inside. (as opposed to hot and hairy on the outside, of course. Summer in the south and almost-south SUCKS.)-
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Apparently, it’s all ASD now: Autism Spectrum Disorder. Youngerspawn’s official diagnosis was PDD:NOS, or Pervasive Developmental Delay: Not Otherwise Specified. It’s now listed as Autistic Disorder on his case files, otherwise known as “Can you make a fucking diagnosis and stick with it. please?”
I prefer the diagnosis a friend of mine got from her pediatrician when her child was diagnosed, right about the same time as Youngerspawn… “This child ain’t right, but she’ll make a great engineer.”
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