My children won't be receiving porn from me either. I won't hide it... and I never really do - except my toys. For some reason I thought my children would never go into my room without me there as it was one of the rules of the house. I should have known better, as one of them came walking down the hall with a purple dildo and asked me what it was. The only saving grace of that situation was the fact that my mother wasn't visiting at the time. I just explained that it was Mommy's toy and they weren't allowed to play with it.
Besides - in this day in time porn is every where. My kids learn about it from TV, movies, magazines (Cosmo anyone?), friends, the school yard, the internet (even though I do have their computer blocked for "adult" sites some still come through), and just walking down the street. I would be stupid to think I could keep them "pure" from it... and I really don't want to. It's part of growing up, and now that they are almost 11 & 12 I know it's inevitable. That and the fact that I'm not a hypocrite - no you can't look at that it's nasty is not in my vocabulary - but (and this is a big but) I won't be the one to give it to them. I will explain things to them, that is part of my duty as a Mom, but I don't have to like the fact that it means my babies are growing up to be young women - I just hope that they're well rounded and sane...