the thing is, I see a polygamist marriage as a three-way marriage, not one person with multiple spouses. If there was a third person in our relationship it'd be because the two of us had accepted this person and received that love and acceptance back. Its not a matter of me bringing home some cute girl or her rustling up some guy. I don't see us working into a polygamist relationship easily if it was possible.
And if he'll mow the lawn he's in.