Tigro Spottystripes

Oh, and this time just to avoid further complications, should i PM the person in question directly to apologize or would it be best to just let this conversation die?

I understand all your points and do see now how much worse my actions were than i was assuming. Though one little note, which doesn't really have any effect on the wrongness of my attitude or the correctness of the moderation actions; i don't think it's much a matter of my country's culture or a language issue per-se, i feel the misunderstandings were prompted more due to some misadjustments in the way my brain works, i somtimes have a hard time noticing social clues , properly weighting different factors and evaluating the appropriateness of things in social contexts etc, i've noticed i don't exactly have a smooth transition between Carebears and Southpark, feels more like an on/off switch, either i repress myself with great intensity or relax and let open the flood gates allowing everything to pass, and not only these extremes in themselves are not well suited to the huge swatch of human interactions but i don't exactly manage to figure out the cues everyone automaticly sees and uses to modulate things (i've been diagnosed with Asperger's, but i think that doesn't explain it all, it feels like i got a swarm of syndromes, conditions etc in my brain; the world feels quite alien somtimes; whenever i think i'm starting to get the hang of it it doesn't take long for a situation along these lines to take place). Again, i'm not making excuses, i do understand now that my commentaries were inappropriate and were received in a manner much different than what i assumed they were, and i do understand i overthought my course of action following the reprehension and that i should've acted literally as i was told instead of assuming everyone pieced things together into the same conclusion i had arrived to; but i have this impulse to try to expose my inner workings, no matter how flawed, when i realize i made a mistake... There are a few more things i wanna say, but the odds are i'm already digging my own grave, and the number one rule for when you're stuck in a hole is to stop digging down...

Based on what others were saying, and how a relative of the person in question was reacting to what others said, i judged (actually, in hindsight i should say misjudged) it was appropriate to ask certain questions and make certain hypothetical statements about this person. In the end it turned out i shouldn't have said stuff i said; my mistake was pointed to me and after i tried to explain why i thought the stuff i had said shouldn't have been taken seriously i made a general apology to all present; then i was instructed to apologize to the relative directly, but the relative said "apology accepted, lets just drop this conversation" (or somthing along these lines, i don't remember the exact words), so with my apology request explicitly accepted by the required individual and a explicit instruction to not touch on that topic again i assumed we were good as long didn't say anything else on the matter; but next thing i know i'm banned from the shoutbox. Would it be acceptable for me to request for a clarification on the exact motive for my banishment? I mean, was the apology that got accepted not enough, was the failed attempt at fitting in and being humorous such a humongous faux-pas? Or is the issue somthing else? ps: just to be clear; i'm not claiming the moderation action was incorrect or inadequate, i don't got enough information to be able to make such an assessment; the thread's title refer to my interpretations on how i was expected to act in the shoutbox. it is not an accusation towards the moderators. I just wanna know what was my exact mistake so i can try to improve my behavior in the future.

To be honest, my memory is way fuzzier than i would like; i can't really think of anything i would've been in position to make positive changes; for the few bad things i can remember happening in any specific enough detail either i would've not been able to change the outcome or knowing they were about to happen and trying to do anything about it, even if just preparing myself emotionally for them happening, would likely leave me in a worse position today than where i'm now. And regarding most aspects i'm still waiting for things to get better (though many in comparison with how they used to be are better; but even those i don't feel are better enough to confortably describe them as being better without getting into technicalities about minimal changes still being changes etc). Overall i think the biggest benefit i could get from sending a letter to my past self would be if the letter contained things like lottery numbers, stock tips, and perhaps things like death dates of famous people to bet on; but i'm probably not thinking of many important events that i could indeed have made better for myself and others. People say money doesn't buy happiness; but i'm running short of other ways to get me any closer to having that...

I did know about Cath, at least somewhere in the back of my head; but to be honest, Mr. Hands is who was on my mind regarding that fantasy ¬.¬ I meant one horse on my ass and another on my mouth, and the human (no particular preference for gender in this scenario) would be swallowing my cock.

Perhaps my observations are biased 'cause of my preferences, but i was under the impression hardvore (involving bitting, chewing, gnawing etc) was more common than softvore... edit:somthing i wish they had a clear distinction and separated names for is consensual hardvore that for whatever reason doesn't result in permanent death or mutilation

The idea is to compare how you rate fics with how other people rated those fics, then for people that rated similarly to you in more than one fic (perhaps with the amount of overlap required being customizable per user), it will see what other fics they rated highly that you haven't rated yet and suggest them to you. Basicly it tries to guess who has similar tastes to you and shows you what they liked, 'cause if they have similar tastes to you, you probably will like those too. This has the nice sideeffect of stimulating people to rate fics honestly and frequently. ps: i understand you guys are swamped with work just keeping things running, no need to feel pressured to rush this in, just keep it in mind for when you have some free time and are in the mood for coding new functionalities edit: i've told ratings are going away, but we're gonna have personal lists of recommended reading, i would expect this would work almost just as well with recommended reading lists as it would with ratings

"op" means Original Poster; i was talking about mjkk2001's age, not the characters or actors

There are lots of things i enjoy that would make the stomachs of average people churn, but at the same time there are some things i don't feel confortable reading or writing about that seem to be quite popular and/or acceptable to most people; but instead of being an asshole and blaming other people i take responsibility for my own actions and just don't go read stuff that displeases me.

If you wanna talk about anything, i'm up for it, though i can't promise to be online all the time or reply quickly, and i dunno if my opinions and experiences regarding the topics you bring up are gonna be useful; oh, and i'll probably rarely ever be the one to start a conversation, that tends to be kinda hard for me, but i wont intentionally ignore you.

For me to consider someone my significant other they would have to be ok with open relationships; it would suck if they went vegetable, but i see no reason to dump them in their absence.

I would like to read somthing like this too

Another angle to be played is the whole predator-prey dance combined with teenagers and their awkward experimentations into adult style interactions. And all the size differences between different species could also provide some interesting routes to take. And just the fact they had all those different species all capable of speaking and acting inteligently (to some extent) works quite well for making caricatures of interracial couplings and culture shock twisted into porn.

If you understand it is wrong to harm others and you don't want to harm others i can't see how you could be considered evil. To be honest, i would feel a bit uneasy being around someone who likes to daydream about being evil and identifies with evil fictional characters for their evilness; but i guess if i get to know you better and you're a nice person whatever happens inside your imagination won't matter; as a matter of fact, i'd bet the stuff that goes on in my own fantasies would creep out most people out there as well. Fiction, by it's very definition, isn't real; imagination, fantasies etc, only exist as information, like the letters on the screen. Thinking about the possibilities, what-ifs etc doesn't define what type of person you are, how you choose to actually behave does. TLDR; choose to not act evil and you will not be evil, nothing else matters.

Usually this type of gritty "what X style fantasy/superpower/videogame/whatever would really be like if it was real" stuff tends to turn me off, but tentacles are one of my weaknesses; depending on how upsetting it is i'll still probably not read it all the way, but i still would like to at least give it a shot; somtimes even if the bad things make my insides churn and my chest tighten the way news programs about shit going down 'round the world does, the story itself and the story telling might make me read it thru; lemme know when the story is up please?

I'll become immortal, or die trying. I'm not gonna die, i'll just gonna go home. Die? Nah, i'm gonna beat this game on a single run. Though if i do have to die, i think it would be interesting if it was somthing gory and erotic and filmed from multiple angles to be posted on the web for sick bastards to wack off watching. Here are some different ways i just thought off (i've fantasized about these ideas and similar, but usually i don't die in the fantasies, at least not permanently) : Getting fucked in the ass by a horse while sucking another one, they go deeper on each thrust wrecking my insides 'til their cocks emerge each out of the hole the other is entering (i'm not quite sure on the geometrical feasibility of this, though i guess there could be people pushing the horsecocks a bit sideways so they hump side by side in opposite directions with their cocks kinda diagonal), all the while i'm throatfucking someone Another idea, this one involves animals too, i'm sandwiched between two tigers, fucking one in the tailhole while the other buttfucks me, then when i'm close to cumming the one on top bites down on the back of my head and neck, at first just holding me but just before i can finish he bites all the way, and only after he cums he steps off and they eat what is left of me. The last one would be somthing like me strapped down and hooked into some machines and under influence of some drugs so that i can stay alive and conscious and aware of what is going on way longer than i would otherwise, and have my senses slightly miswired so pain though still painful also feels good, and one or more guys rape me on all existing holes and new ones as well while gradually eating me alive bite by bite. If i'm gonna die i might as well do somthing that i just don't do 'cause it would kill me, or if it doesn't kill me i would be left with my body severely damaged and potentially unpleasant memories; since these things end with my death, even if it turns out i won't enjoy the experience it will eventually be over and i'll not be around to be bothered of having had those experiences, and if i do enjoy it i wouldn't have wasted the chance of having had that experience I don't fear death (at least not rationally, but i guess instincts and things that don't pay attention to arguments, things like phobias etc lurk on my mind), but i intend on avoiding it as much as possible, i wanna see what happens next in this universe of ours; i don't care how bad things get, i'll not give up so easily of seeing this thru.

I would expect it represents and exaggeration of the questioning tone

Combative? I didn't realized i spoke in a combative manner, sorry. I'm just trying to understand what is the obstacle so i can try to think of a way around it. Perhaps i exaggerated a bit with the analogies and hypothetical scenarios; i'm just trying to take what i've been told to the extremes to see if the explanation for the extreme cases match what i extrapolate from what i understood of what i'm being told; though i guess i'm also simultaneously trying to point out issues with the current situation and possible solutions i see, in case my understanding of the situation is accurate.

Is it it really common practice to not protect against malformed data? If even a simple plus sign can be so dangerous i find it a bit surprising the servers don't get compromised more often... Isn't there the risk a cosmic ray will flip some bit when the database is getting written and crash the whole site next time that field is read? If strings can be so powerful, they probably should be treated like plastic explosives, never have the material and the detonator together until it's time to use it, keep everything escaped and only unescape in the final steps for the intended use (if the exact actual content is needed, if you for example wanna compare a stored value with what the user just inputted for example you could compare the escaped, safe, versions instead) But with the planned changes they prefer we use the same address on the forum and the archive...

That is why escaping exists... I find it hard to believe PHP doesn't got escaping... I could be wrong, but just in case, could you guys look into this to see if there is indeed nothing you can do please?

I would be quite surprised if somthing as big and as widely used as PHP has no way to handle adequatly the presence of commonly used characters like the plus sign in inputs... Would you mind looking (further) into the possibility of tweaking the code to accept and work with email addresses with a + sign please? (ideally accepting all the appropriate recommendations from the pertinent RFCs) In the end, with the data properly escaped to avoid any potential security hole, the easiest route probably would be to impose no restriction whatsoever, and simply confirm validity of the email address by sending a secret code and/or one time link to the address and requesting the person to input the code/open the link; as long as the person can receive emails sent to the address they specified there is no need to worry about any address standards.

Naruto and the gang have a few days off, they go to this hotspring deep inside a cave that some say has mystical properties, it's said that for those rare few who represent a thinning in the veil, the sacred spring can facilitate connection with other worlds. Such people nowadays are so rare, and the hotspring so rarely visited that the alleged mystical properties of the spring are considered to be just superstition, often attributed to hallucinations caused by staying too long inside the hot damp environment. Well, turns out Naruto is one of those rare people, not that anyone (perhaps except Kyubi) is aware of though. After wolfing down all the ramen he had brought Naruto is relaxing in this half-submerged reclined chair thing sculpted into the rock near the back of the cave, lit by the foaming steam hundred of metres deep in a spot of the spring that goes deep enough to touch the magma flow while being far enough from the surface for the heat to distribute and mix with the cold water from underground streams enough to cool down to safe levels; suddenly he hear strange noises, then silence, everyone is gone, no signs, then somthing burst out of the water; thinking whatever that is, it's responsible for the disappearance of his friends Naruto jumps to attack it. Turns out that somthing is InuYasha, who was in a similar situation to Naruto in his respective world, except he had just dove down for a bit, being attacked he instantly fights back, quickly noticing none of his gang is around anymore he assumes whatever attacked him is responsible. They fight for a while, more or less reasonably matched. But eventually they find they are in a similar situation, and that each one though not seeing any difference in the cave came from a different cave. Well, now more friendly, and realizing those stories about the hotspring promoting encounters between different worlds were real, they start to get along, talk about the differences and similarities between their worlds etc. This continues for a while, eventually they run out of things to talk about and the talk starts heading towards relationships etc, one of them, Naruto i guess, asks if the other has anyone in particular they like, boy or girl, the other at first is a bit surprised about liking boys being an option, but the more he thinks about it the more curious he gets; you can probably see where this is heading, can't you? Hesitant at first they start probing how the other feels about "boy on boy", and eventually, though gradually, it escalates to full on smut, doggy style and all (and Inu got a knot, i don't care if his package is mostly human or more animal like, knots are hot. If you want you could also have Naruto manifest Kyubi's knot, chakra based or otherwise). The epilogue would have Naruto waking up thinking it was just a dream; his swiming trunks is tenting, he realizes this and is a bit embarrassed and tries to hide it, worried someone else might've noticed it, some of the others around are acting a bit weird which makes him think they did. Though if you're willing to write further chapters, the reason they're acting a bit weird is the same as Naruto's, each of them has had their own experience, perhaps with different worlds instead of Inu's, up to you which worlds and which characters. ps:is this the best place to post this or is there a forum specific for NarInu xover requests? There is not xover request forum, should i replicate the thread in the InuYasha requests forum or people that would write such crossovers check both this and that forum? edit:btw, for me, as long as things are consensual (even if the people involved like to pretend it isn't), pretty much anything goes, any gender combinations, any kinks etc; there isn't much besides actual non-con and things like permanent death and non-reversible crippling etc that can turn me off.

It's not possible to use escaping for such situations?

Does anyone else has suspicions about the age of the op?

Ok, then could you guys please fix the email address validation system in the archive please? It won't let me use an address with a plus signal in the username...