Leonhart29

Bring Me to Life - Evanescence (this album's been on all day)

I haven't either - that's why when I'm by myself I tend not to eat. I have never cooked a dinner for more than 15 people.

Not really. Isn't it about dinner time though?

In answer to your question Pixiagi - I wouldn't be able to have both of them at the same time (and if I was still with my ex I'd leave him in a heart beat - there was no love on his side of the equation) I would have to chose. I've never given it much thought actually. But now that I have let me tell you what I think (and as always this is my opinion). In this world the way it is today, it's always the man who gets to have the extras - the extra bit on his paycheck, the extra serving at dinner time, the extra wife... it comes from being in a patriarchal society. Do I believe humans are a monogamous species? No way... but we have the intelligence to chose how we want to live, and if polygamy is what we chose to do go for it. I'm just not wired that way. Call me selfish, call me an idiot, call me whatever you want - I just can't do it. Now if I was raised that way, then yeah I'm sure I wouldn't have a problem with the whole thing, but I was raised as one man one woman. If all adults are consenting (and adult is a big word here - there have been cases where a man has taken multiple wives and some of them have been a hell of a lot younger than they should be), and they all provide for the family unit (including each other's kids and what not) then I see nothing wrong with it - for them. And I have been in this situation - kinda. My ex brought in a woman right after I had my oldest daughter to "help out with the chores and the kid"... what he really wanted her for was an on call on site sex partner until I could have sex again. I have to stop and wonder if the people who do have multiple spouses are really in love with any of them or if they just want to romp with a different person every night or have an on call orgy without having to deal with the whole adultery thing.

Willow

Have you really? Red?

I am no longer allowed to mix up avi's and ask a stupid question about a post

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Guilty - it's Dr Pepper and it's an obsession sometimes. G/NG has something they hate doing but do it any way

I am procrastinating. I am thinking that the longer I wait the more I'll have to pay when I get out to the booby hatch. I am going to just bite the bullet and go in about 10 minutes.

With consent is just fine - as long as it's not in my house. I lived with "other women" for a long time during my marriage. The sad part of the whole thing is that I could handle the cheating - but if he had come to me and said "I want to marry so and so because I love her and I know you will too." I would have left the marriage a hell of a lot sooner than I did.

8170 (congrats!)

sadly no - will I do instead? Daz?

I am no longer allowed to be jealous of Daz and her mother (mine would look at me strangely and tell me just how she wants me to do it)

I would assume so. Do you think I should tone it down a bit?

Never

Cheesecake

Guilty - I abhor religious zealots on basic principles but my aunt puts the rest of them to shame. Apparently I'm going to hell and dragging the rest of the family down with me. G/NG Has a zealot in their family

I am no longer allowed to poke fun at my government (I don't think I'll stop though)

Nope - Nan?

8166

I am about to post the last chappie in Realms once my friends done reading it. I am so stoked! I am happy it's finally done - all 33 chapters of it (I'd have to do a word count but I know it took up a whole ream and a half of paper to print it out). I am saying that I left it open for a sequel if I ever get up the courage.

I am thinking that Big Sam will start another fic once he's run out of chapters for this one. I am taking a break from watching a Ghost Hunters marathon. I am a glutton for punishment as I know my over active imagination will probably give me something to think about while I dream. I am hoping that tomorrow at the ranch will be productive.

Would it really matter much - I mean do you really want to attract animals in that way?

That would be me - for the time being. Daz?