I cant believe he said that!

[DemonsAngel]

Ok, normally I am not the kind of person that leaves a rant. But I need to. Recently I found a friend on FB that I haven't seen in 5 years. Turns out he has been living down the street with my ex-best friend.

Now first off, I shall give you a bit of background. My former friend is male, I am female. I ended our friendship two Halloweens ago. I got really tired of him always being handsy with me, despite the fact that I told him not to touch me, and that he was treating me like shit. He made me feel really used. Then on Halloween we (me, Kevin (ex friend), his room mate Jeff and his then fiance D-chan (one of my 2 best female friends)) got together at his moms house along with a few others for a party. He was just pure awefull to me. Was rude saying he didnt like my costume when we picked him up from work. Even though me and D-chan wore exactly the same thing (double trouble dark fairys ^^ ). Then he ignored me the entire night and wouldnt even talk to me and tell me what was wrong when I tried to find out. So I called him out on it and told him I really didn't appreciate nor deserve to be treated that way and that if thats how he was going to be we were done. He wouldnt even help carry things out to the car when I had my hands FULL. Despite the fact that everyone else was helping too. I was real upset for the next week or so. Anyways, that was the end of what was a several year long friend ship. As for feeling used, when ever we did things that required money I always paid, I drove us everywhere since he didn't have a car or we walked. I tried very hard to do things he would want to though he always shot down what I wanted to do. Plus, everyone keeps telling me they suspect he is really gay and just wont admit and was using me as his last resort to prove he wasn't. Not to mention he knew I had a crush on him at one point and passed me up for a girl he had never even met on the other side of the country. (His loss by the way)

ANYWAYS, on to my original topic, I asked the friend I found on FB if he knew why we stopped being friends and told him why. He told me that Kevin had been telling him that HE ended it cause I was leading him on and treating him like shit. (Please keep in mind that my friend, whom I love to death does not believe him and that I would NEVER lead someone on. That is just cruel and SO beneath me.) Now, on to my actual rant.

First off: I NEVER lead him on. I let him know from the start that I was interested in him. After that he started doing things like hugging me and pulling me into his lap. Then he pushed me aside for some girl he never met. After about a year once he realized he couldn't have her he came back to me. We dated for two days. I ended because I was uncomfortable with it. Even after that he kept hugging me, which is fine, I like hugs, but kept doing things like pulling me onto his lap and not letting me up, randomly grabbing me etc, which I wasn't ok with and asked him time and again to stop. The ONLY time I ever treated him like shit on purpose (yes, I had my moments when in a bad mood and I always felt terrible later and apologized) was when he let my rat, who he was keeping at his place for me, get sick and NOT TELL ME. I found out when I went over to clean her cage. She had a HUGE abscess on her neck. I had to take her to the vet and she nearly lost her bottom teeth cause it rotted out the roots. I have had rats before. And they have gotten abscess's. When I confronted him about it he had the nerve to tell me that he saw her that morning and she was fine. They do NOT form that fast and I called him on it. For that I yelled at him and was cold for a while. But that was it. So yeah. The guy is a complete loser. I have been much happier without him these past two years. Yes, I still miss hanging out with him, but I know I am better off.

END OF RANT

Thank you for listening ==