Now, I admit that I adore yaoi. But, I also enjoy a well written het story and even yuri on my odd days. A strong story is a strong story, no matter what genre it falls under. And, while bad writing happens, it can happen to anyone and the point of a free-to-publish forum like this is to allow people to write what they want and get feedback from it. I woudl rather have one review that says - this is poorly done because... than a dozen - oh this is great! when it sucks. Research is the key! To everything of course, but especially to protraying a relationship that, as a woman, I simply can not experience. The fact that it's a great excuse to watch porn has nothing to do with it. Really.
Very plainly, I do my best every day to write strong stories and whether they are or not is what I take from the feedback I receive. I enjoy writing yaoi, so I do so, as well as het pairings. I don't really have an opinion as to whether it is good or not, I can only say I enjoy it. I do wish authors would take the time to place their stories in the correct category and would choose the appropriate tags, it would make choosing stories to read much easier. It is never offensive to portray an opinion whenit is not harmful to anyone else's feelings. I'm quite glad I decided to read this post as it is interesting to know where other people stand in the yaoi debate.