Sorry, new to this. My friends told me about what was going on and being the insanely curious person (the kind that gawks at a roadside accident) I decided to mosey over.
What I find amusing(?), curious is the Shadow (sorry can't remember the rest of your name) statement
my one failing (or one that I'll admit to ) is I try to see the other side of the coin.
"Yes, I saw DA's post. In it she doesn't say what they did. She just states she is leaving. Just like they say, we don't know their side of the story but when Jaxxy returned and saw, they ran. That right there should be a warning light.
Why on earth would you expect them to remain is completely beyond me. And not choosing sides, but it seems to me it's clear you have some sorta bias against them. And you seem to know a lot about what went down inside the mod group, unless you were a mod yourself?
But anyway, back to my point.
If the mods ran like you said, my impression would have probably been that they choose not to Jaxxy's return rather than make a huge stink.
And yet, there's a big, pile of stink.
That Solar person says the mods shoulda called Jaxxy. And she's correct. They could have called.
But on the other hand, what was preventing Jaxxy from calling her mods?
I'm playing the devil's advocate here.
By saying they could have called Jaxxy, it implies a recipical arrangement. Which means, why couldn't Jaxxy call? I mean, if I was the owner of a site and dropped out of sight for several months, I would have damn well called to at least check in. I wouldn't wait until a crisis blew up in my face.
Like this.
My take is, if you have time to check on Nexcess, then you have time to send or answer an email. It doesn't take much, just a quick 'Yo, I'm here'.
My grandmother used to always say, 'Chile, ju betta remember, whoever shouts d'loudest u'sle got da mos' t'hide. Dey git dey frens and dey go t'whoopin' n hollarin'. Dat way, nobody hears t'udder fellow."
My take is, there's a lot of whoopin' n hollarin'' goin' on.
Maybe it's time for it to stop.