Snow, if Jaxxy decides to quit the site again tomorrow and insists no one else can play, are your loyalties going to be to her or the the health and safety of our bondage porn?
Frankly, I'm more comfortable with the idea of a group of people controlling ownership and operation of the site, so the place doesn't turn into some kind of cult of personality the way it is now. I don't see any safety nets here anymore. I don't care who was in the wrong, but I know I'm not comfortable with Jaxxy issuing directives from on high, with no accountability to anyone. She creeps me out with her "happy writing" and her ego-centrism.
Or to put it as simply as possible, will this be her site, or our site?