TheDetective
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A: I went to my gay friends who are gay for my information about anal. I also know a couple gals who like anal also. Getting first hand information from people who do have experience in the department which makes the writing far more realistic. I portray emotional attachments plus the stages of fore play that are needed to make the sex good for both sides. Then again, I also swap out which of my yaoi couple is dominant, another thing all my gay pals have mentioned they do. I think there is a huge problem with only one dominant and only one receiver due to the problem of portraying one male as a girl in a guy's birthday suit. Men are still men, and they do tend to switch roles based upon moods, and trust levels.
Have to agree on the dominant part. You see it a lot in yaoi and a good deal of the time in anything that has two guys in any sexual relationship with each other. The roles being changed every so often is something that is always refreshing to see, to bad it's rather rare.
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A: Agreed because anal is all about prepping the one on the receiving end so that person won't get torn up. I thought I was the only one aware of that aspect of sexuality. Glad I am not the only person who has read up on the subject, and talked to my gay pals who confirmed my research some time ago.
I am pansexual and a guy, so I'd need to know at least how to perform anal sex right since I have a liking for guys. I will say this though, enough hand lotion on AND inside the anus, along with a nice coat on what ever is going into it, might let you not have to put one inch in at a time. I speak from experience on this, only because of a mishap with a cucumber while I was alone....... which also comes to another lesson for all to learn; don't use to much lotion.
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::nods:: And some of the most pitiless, emotionless people I've met have been female. I've known women who could turn off any emotional attachment like you would turnoff a running faucet. So, really, I try not to generalize myself.
That's both a bit creepy and interesting all at the same time. Though which of the two weight more is tricky to say ha ha. Have to agree with the BigMan though, lot of women at least like guys who show emotion more than the 'calm & cool' kinda guy. Not saying all women are like that, but a good deal of them are..... even if some deny it :3.
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Normal? Wow, you guys are a lot different about that then all the other places I've been. See your point though.
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Interesting topic, though this thing has been revived three or four times now right? This is the most revived thread I've ever seen in my life, thank you for the experience. Now on to the actual topic, can women write male sex scenes? I don't see why not honestly. I mean it's like everyone has pointed out at one time or another in here; research, DO RESEARCH. Anyone can write in any perspective if they just do enough research or at the very least, some kind of research. I'm a guy, but for years and I mean YEARS I studied the female body and the gender, also helped that over half of my family is made up of girls ha ha. But I did the research, created a pair of male/female siblings on a forum and ended up having an rp with a girl involving the siblings. First sexual writing I ever did in the perspective of a woman in my life. Person I was rping with asked me if I was a girl and just lying about being male on my profile, so that right there should tell people just how accurate my writing of a female in a sexual scene was; remember I'm a guy to.
All amounts to doing research, the more research you do the better you are likely to be in your writing of the opposite sex. Also I would like to just say I agree about the dick girl comment on the first page, one involving yaoi/slash and the like. I mean people who only do their research on yaoi alone is going to be a poor writer for male/male stories of any kind; at least involving sexual scenes if nothing else. The only difference between male/male yaoi and dick girl's is often the fact the guys in yaoi just don't have breasts. Don't get me wrong, I actually do happen to enjoy yaoi, but my opinion stands. Mean you don't just apply lotion or cum or anything slick, slimy, or wet and then just slide on in slowly or in one mighty thrust, I mean that would not only hurt, but cause bleeding like you wouldn't believe. Lotion or what I said above is a good start, but you always have to at least ease in an inch and pull out, then go in an inch deeper the next time and repeat the process until your either balls deep or both men are comfortable and can start on the thrusting portion.
Now that doesn't go for just guys, that's basically anal sex in general, or at least the first couple of times you do it with the person. Feel like I've went off topic, so I'm just gonna end it here.
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I'm new here on the site, haven't been here a week but it seems like a friendly place. This is actually my first time submitting any of my stories at all for people to see, I've been rping for years and have had a lot of great idea's for stories, but I was lacking in confidince with my writing since when I was young, my reading and writing skills just sucked. But that was then and this is now, so I'm actually getting up the courage to show people my stories. I'm only working on one story right now and submitting chapters as I finish them, but I'm writing a few other stories that I'll submit on here after I've reached a good point in my first story, maybe at the tenth chapter? Not sure yet ha ha.
But anyways, this is about promoting stories and not telling everyone my life story, so on to the stories! Now instead of just promoting my story, I'm actually more so promoting a category that many people probably don't know about. The Corruption of Champions category in the games section, now adays if you're into text based games or well anything that isn't very normal, you've likely at least HEARD of the game itself. It's a great game, but what I'm promoting here is the fanfiction writings of it. The game is flexible, I mean it's very flexible and making fanfiction of it is likely the easiest thing anyone could do. Currently there are only two stories in the category of it, my first story on here and the other is from the author Raistlin. Her story has 11 chapters and mine has 2 right now, but it'll have a lot more as time goes by.
Both of our stories are pretty much the same up to a degree, both stories are about our OC's journies in the world of Mareth, the setting of corruption of champions. But that's where the degree ends, because our OC's will naturally be taking different paths in our stories. The stories will involve a wide range of things, anthro's, anal, F/F, M/M, M/F/F, M/M/F, solo, DP, Fet, Fingering and a whole lot of other things that if I listed down, it'd be a paragraph sized list. All I can honestly say is that if you've ever played the game before, give these stories a try and heck, write a few yourself since you've the freedom to do whatever you want and don't have to just choose from options already written out. This is my first time both writing fanfiction and submitting stories on a site, so if I do anything wrong or place something somewhere I shouldn't, please tell me so I may fix it.
Any critisism is welcomed since I do actually plan on becoming a writer, so any and all of that is welcomed. I also hope you enjoy the stories and the ones to come from me.
Raistlin's story ------> CoC - My Champion's Story
My story ------> http://games.adult-fanfiction.org/story.php?no=600088963 Marethian Journey's
'Women can't write male sex scenes...'
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To put it as simply as I can, gender/race doesn't matter to a pansexual. Pretty sure a lot of pansexual's have their own kinda term for it since it can vary from person to person, but it has ended up boiling down to pansexual's not caring for gender or race, sometimes even species. Could say a lot of hedonistic people are pansexual.
You forget one very important thing there; it's fangirl's. Not saying all, but a good deal of fangirls have been known to fly off the handle when they see someone writing a story about their 'pairing' and find the roles are reversed or one isn't just the 'seme' and 'uke' all the time. Main reason why I like to stay away from writing pure fanfiction and putting my own OC's into the mix, the fangirls/fanboys, I stay away from those as much as humanly possible.